http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty That's the world from my perspective - with a free weblog from blogigo. en sprighty sprighty Tue, 07 Feb 2006 05:28:06 +0100 daily 1 I know these entries are few and far between right now- but it's been super super busy for me lately!  Work has been engulfing all my time- as usual for this time of year, and any that I have left- I spend it with the love of my life :) This past weekend we went to Dallas, TX to see his sister and brother in law and their new baby girl.  She was very cute (like most babies), and super tiny- she came a month early, but healthy as a bug!  I still don't do the whole 'baby' thing though- I won't hold them or anything, I'm afraid i'll break them! lol *  but seriously, I might want one someday...not yet- cuz I want to make sure I'm totally financially ready, and me and Jason need to work out some of our kinks still.  Things are getting much better.  We fight alot less (was rough at first!) and are trying to pay off our cars so we can afford a bigger house within the next year...we have our short term and long term goals pretty much in place- which is exciting! I tried to do... Tue, 07 Feb 2006 05:28:06 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/it-s-me-again/76/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/it-s-me-again/76/ I just thought I would write in here and say "HI" to everyone!  :)  I've been soooo busy since getting married and all...plus, work has been crazy!  Finally having some good months so I can make some money!! Woohoo!  Anyways- just wanted to let everyone know that things are going well...Jason and I get along great, we have a lot of fun together.  Sure, we have the typical frustrations every now and then, but then we just brush them away and remember how much we love each other (eww- this sounds sooo sappy!)  *giggles* Anyways- I turned my guestbook off because some stupid heads were spamming it, phentermine and blackjack ads...jack asses!  Get a life!  But I'm sure that those of you that are important can still leave comments :)  I hope everyone is doing well- *hugs for everyone* Wed, 18 Jan 2006 04:13:16 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/HEYA-PEOPLE/75/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/HEYA-PEOPLE/75/ Ok- so here are some of the things that were running through my head after an argument that Jason and I had Saturday night... I don't understand why we argue so much, I don't unerstand why we fight when going to bed at night...every day I can't wait to come home, so that I can cuddle with you in bed and just feel you next to me. You can be so indecisive at times, it drives me crazy-other times, you get mad if I ask you to compromise. I don't know how to react when you are having a bad day, I feel like it's my fault and i don't know how to make it better. When I'm away from you, all I want is to give you a hug, but when I see you- I feel like you don't want to touch me sometimes. I just want the answers, so I can make it better. Kind of poetic in a sad way- so I thought I'd post it.   We argued about everything!  Sat night- it was because i was on the phone trying to help a gal pal out, instead of paying attention to him.  Sunday, we fought because I didn't want to practice bass... Tue, 29 Nov 2005 03:02:59 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/an-argumentive-weekend/74/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/an-argumentive-weekend/74/ Well, Thanksgiving was eventful, yet, uneventful all at the same time.  My new inlaws came to visit...Wednesday evening was good, even though I ended up staying at work till 4:30 (an hour and a half longer than expected), and when Jason's sister and brother in law got to our house, we all went to the new Applebees and had dinner (which of course was like an hour and a half ordeal cuz it's new and it was thanksgiving eve.  It was good though! thursday wasn't quite as good...Jason pissed me off by not 'helping out' first thing in the morning, so that set me in a bitter mood all morning.  Then lunch was yummy (we all went to my mom and dad's house) and then after lunch we watched War of the Worlds...love that movie- but it was so much scarier on the big theater screen.  Or maybe it was just that I had seen it once already.  Then we all went back to my house, and Jana took a nap, and Jason and Cris started playing stupid star wars video games...pissed me off- so I went and hung out... Sat, 26 Nov 2005 19:20:54 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/over-thanksgiving/73/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/over-thanksgiving/73/ Oh my Gosh, you guys are gonna love this!!!  I have such a big mouth!  But, I know what I'm talking about!!  This is the story about my trip to the pawn shop the other day with Jason...we went there to talk to his ex landlord (owner of the shop) about getting his deposit back that he promised to Jason by last Wednesday.... (I copied the conversation I had earlier today with my good friend Shelly...most of you know her- She's such an encouragement...good one, I think! LOL!!  Love you girl!) irridescentshadows: his ex landlord told jason he'd get his deposit back by last wednesday... $200 Shelly: mm hmm ... irridescentshadows: well, when jason went on friday- the guy had no real answers for jason Shelly: irridescentshadows: so he went in monday- and the landlord showed him a piece of paper that said jason had to give 30 days notice... irridescentshadows: well, WE went BACK in yesterday to see the original copy of what jason signed... irridescentshadows: heheheee.... Shelly: Uh huh...... Thu, 17 Nov 2005 05:44:08 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Down-at-the-Pawn-Shop/72/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Down-at-the-Pawn-Shop/72/ I can't wait for things to start getting busier at work.  Right now- it's so dead that I have time to log online and put an entry in here...huh...what a job!  So- I have one car deal out so far this month, and one going out monday...so that means that I am tracking for 4.2 units this month.  WOW!  That's terrible.  But hopefully things will pick up a little next week.  The weather is freaking crazy!  One day it's 32 degrees at night, the next day, it's 80 degrees!  Ridiculous.  I'm still able to drive the mustang with the top down on most days...actually I say "i" but I mean Jason.  lol-- he's pretty much taken possession of that.  It's ok though.  I'm going to pick up my cavalier tonight- maybe let my brother drive the Mark VIII for a week or so.  I miss my little car.  *sniffles*  So, Jason was going to go on a long bike ride today on his motorcycle, but instead, my parents drove by and mentioned that they were working on the... Sat, 12 Nov 2005 20:52:32 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Just-another-saturday/71/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Just-another-saturday/71/ Well, to start the day off....Elane was off today, and Jamey was sick...so all the collection calls were coming to our office, and of course "I" had to answer them.  Everyone had something wrong!  Either this was broke, or that was broke...grrrr...it was driving me crazy!  I had to explain to a guy for 30 minutes, that if he is on bi-weekly payments, some months will have 3 paydays, and that if he switched to monthly payments, it would HELP him by spreading those extra payments out over the year...he didn't get it-- i was like OMG!!!  Then, Jason was sooo cranky, I would try to call him to talk, and see if he wanted to play a game on msn messenger or something- and he'd be like, NO!  ewww!!!  Cranky ass!  Then, i didn't really get a lunch break today, but cuz he was 'sick' I took him lunch, then to find out- he went to work today--- I was like, ummmm... hello?!?!!  You should have brought ME lunch!  *rolling my eyes*  Then had to stay late at work, doing... Fri, 11 Nov 2005 02:12:49 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/bad-day/70/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/bad-day/70/ Well, I'm feeling a little better now...unfortunately, this stuff is so contagious, that i didn't stay home in time, and three of my coworkers got it, and so did poor Jason. :(  He's so cute when he's sick though!  I'm like...awww- my poor baby!  But honestly, he just likes the attention I think. I'm having a good hair day today...don't know how I pulled that one off...especially since it's like 30 mph winds outside.  I'm looking foward to next weekend.  I have that weekend off, and I think me and Jason are going to go to Oklahoma City or something, maybe do a little shopping.  I wouldn't mind going to Dallas even!  I didn't have any money to spend on silly stuff last time we went. well- gonna get back to work now- it's soooo slow! Wed, 09 Nov 2005 21:18:12 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/the-crud/69/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/the-crud/69/ Okay, I'm sure everyone will have better sentances- but here's my answers to the quiz shellz! Joy I have never felt more Joy than I did the day I married Jason! Rage I feel deep rage within me everytime Jason talks about his ex Jan. Envy I have envy for every pretty, skinny girl. Desire I have a strong desire to be debt free by the time I am 27. Passion I have a deep passion for legal issues...politics, family issues, law enforcement. Jealousy Sometimes my jealousy of other people gets me into trouble and I have to bite my tongue. Want I want to have a happy life with my new husband. Need I need to be reassured that I am beautiful and loved sometimes, especially when I am having a bad day! Crave I crave attention, wether it be good or bad...secretly, we all crave it, we just can't let it run our lives. Pleasure One of my favorite quotes is from the movie "Hey Dude, Where's My Car" when the space chicks go, "we will give you great... Sun, 06 Nov 2005 20:05:08 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Shelly-s-quiz/68/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/Shelly-s-quiz/68/ Well, I'm finally starting to feel a little better from this icky bug i've had the past couple days...now I'm just cranky, and tired of being inside the house.  I've kinda been taking it out on Jason..but some of the stuff he is bringing upon himself!  For example... We had planned to go to the movies and chill like all day today... but we watched one this morning (hehehe-- i forgot to wash him some boxers while I was washing his uniforms, so I had to wash and dry some real quick this morning) then he gets dressed, and says he's gonna go ride his bike!  Now- we've had the bike talk before... this time he says..."we need to get you a bike."  But when he's showing me all these bikes that he would get me, i'm like- they are soooo NOT trendy bikes, and I'm not riding one-- the only other chick in town that has a cruiser- works at the bike shop- and is an obvious dike!  I'M SO OUT!!  Now- if he wants to get me a crotch rocket, or something of the sorts- then we'll talk...but I... Sun, 06 Nov 2005 19:50:44 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/i-m-grouchy-today/67/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/i-m-grouchy-today/67/ UGHHHH...I feel like shit today actually.  My head hurts...my throat is all scratchy, and my body aches like I got hit by a truck! :(  My mom has the same thing, she was out all day yesterday cuz she felt so bad, and she said i needed to go to the doctor cuz it's some sort of bug, and if I don't go get on some antibiodics, this shit will just hang on- so I think I'll call and get a shot tomorrow.  This is sooo bogus! In more positive notes, things are going pretty good with Jason and I.  He has been feeling rather 'frisky' today- which I think is adorable! :)  He called me yesterday at work just to say, "I love you."  Isn't that sweet?! We had a talk about his kid(s) last night though...I think he wants to try to take his writ to the tulsa courts to try to get them to back up his custody rights.  His ex wife sounds totally bogus!!!  He wants to go see the kids and for me to meet them, which he's pretty sure only the first one is his, in a couple... Fri, 04 Nov 2005 04:06:49 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/not-feeling-good-today/66/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/not-feeling-good-today/66/ So I thought I'd write, seeing as how I haven't had time to think, let alone write in my blog!!! :)   But things are getting back to semi-normal now.  Jason's stuff is moving into my house-- needs to be unpacked..the question is WHERE?!!  OMG- I have no idea how to organize all of this stuff!  It feels so weird...I'm like- where is this 'boy' stuff going?  lol.   Right now I'm just focusing on doing the 500 loads of laundry I need to get done...ugh.  Today was my day off, so we went to the base and got my cars registered and my ID card so I can get on base - YAY!!  Just like back in the day....*sigh*, and then we went to lunch, and stopped by the hearing aid place to see if he could fix my broken hearing aid...ended up just needing to buy new ones.  Gonna cost me a whopping $1,500...I don't think Jason was real happy about that, but then when he realized how badly I needed them, he kinda loosened up...I made an appointment with the audiologist in... Wed, 02 Nov 2005 02:51:26 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/been-a-while/65/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/been-a-while/65/ OK, so we all remember little miss "Jan," Jason's past 'love'... well- last night, Jason and I are watching a movie- and someone rings the doorbell at 10:30ish pm... I'm like- maybe it's my dad or one of the neighbors...but no- it's these two wanna-be trendy skinny girls with dark hair, and entirely too much make up on, asking for Jason..  I'm like "rolling my eyes and all"- it's for u.  So he goes outside on the porch and talks to them for over 20 minutes!  Doesn't introduce me, or anything.  I felt like he was hiding something...I was right, cuz he hadn't told Jan that we got married.  And her little friend, Juanita and her were like .. OMG- we heeard and we started smoking again and all this bullcrap- I'm not amused, so I finally go to the door and tell Jason I'm going to bed and for him to please hurry up.  He was like- oh, ok...then came in shortly after.  I thanked him for his promptness-- then he told me who it was, and I was like- dude, we already had a bad day-... Mon, 31 Oct 2005 16:57:09 +0100 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/our-first-fight/64/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/our-first-fight/64/ YAY!!  Everything turned out to be okay after all... when Jason got home last night, we talked, and I reassured him that everything will be fine, then my dad called and told me that he knew that Jason would not be going anywhere, and things should be fine...I don't know if dad had anything to do with that one or not - but I'm glad my daddy works at the same place Jason does so he can keep me informed on these things!  (I'm a daddy's girl).  Then, this morning, I was a little worried that he would like, not show up or something, or not be 'cleaned' up...I guess I was just expecting something to go wrong...but sure enough!!  He was actually there early, and the small, short ceremony went great.  Nice and easy, just like we wanted it.  My mom's best friend and her mother showed up- they're just like family, a little late..but that's cool.  Then, we went and turned in our marriage certificate, and now we're totally set- now all i have to do is change over all my name... Fri, 28 Oct 2005 21:57:12 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/I-m-MARRIED/63/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/I-m-MARRIED/63/ Yep...you read the title right...but this time- it's not me...I think Jason is totally spun.  Today he was kinda quiet at lunch...then at dinner (his break) he told me he might have to fly tomorrow to florida with his crew (I guess for hurricane relief stuff).  The lady in the nail salon said his plane isn't going, it's a different one....and usually you 'volunteer' for these trips...but he said he didn't this time.  *Sigh*  Basically...I think he's full of shit and he's starting to get scared.  It's kinda funny....I called his mom to tell her that I think he's flaking out, and she was like..no! he's so excited, i doubt it.  He has been on the list for a long time.  But my mom thinks that's bogus. (And my dad has the same job just a little higher rank).  I dunno... he said he'd see me when he got home- just another hour and a half, and i'll know one way or the other...worse case scenario, I look like an idiot tomorrow at work and have to wait until tuesday. ... Fri, 28 Oct 2005 05:34:30 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/cold-feet/62/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/cold-feet/62/ So, Elane and I are sitting here very very bored- just talkin away... wish we had some traffic, like maybe a car deal would be nice.  The only phone calls we have gotten are telemarketers.  My mom and dad brought us some lunch, cuz niether one of us can leave.  Sonic rocks.  Still getting married Friday...at 10 am.. we got our marriage license yesterday, and Jason has started moving his stuff in.  Fun fun...I hate moving!  ANyways- gonna try to get that all taken care of this weekend.  Well- talk to u all later   Wed, 26 Oct 2005 20:47:04 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/boring-work-day/61/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/boring-work-day/61/ So, meeting Jason's sister was not bad at all...she was really nice, and her husband was really funny- so they were easy to get along with...in fact, I invited them to Thanksgiving dinner at my parent's house with Jason and I...which was worried that my wouldn't go for that deal, but she was totally okay with it!  The more the merrier! I got my ring this weekend!  That was the highlight!  And we have picked Jason's out pretty much, just have to go get it tomorrow.  I got to wear my ring yesterday and today, but then when my mom saw it- she was like, "aren't you supposed to wait till friday for that?!"  giggles*  so Jason made me take it off. :(  but it was real sweet- in the jewelry shop- he put it on my finger, my hand was shaking and I almost cried it was sooo sweet- then we kissed... aawww-- brings tears to my eyes right now! I'm soooo happy!  For the first time in my life- everything is perfect. :) OK- so, the concert- totally sucked!!!!!!!!  Ugh- we... Tue, 25 Oct 2005 05:35:28 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/long-weekend/60/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/long-weekend/60/ Yay!  I finally had the nerve to talk to Jason's mom on the phone tonight!!  I feel so much better now!  She is a wonderful person and was so easy to talk to!  She made me so excited and anxious about meeting her!  And Mr. Porter sounded pretty pleased that I called to talk to her, and she said they are both pleased with our decision!  OMG- it is such a sigh of relief to have so much support in all this!  Sure there are friends out there who think we are crazy for doing this so quickly, but hey- if it feels good, why wait?! ;)  So, as much as I like this webblog- i might not have as much time to log after next Friday...oh yeh- we're getting married next Friday...maybe Saturday.  I'm so excited! :) Fri, 21 Oct 2005 05:09:37 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/talk-with-Jason-s-mom/59/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/talk-with-Jason-s-mom/59/ YAY!!!  Nedw hairdo pic is posted...it's not the greatest..but ---> look! Just in case u can't tell cuz it's too dark and blurry...u see the pieces that frame my face...then there's more layers under that that are darker and flip out...so trendy!!  Kinda like a old school Jennifer Anniston cut..only- trendified! LOL! Jason really liked it-- I look so dramatic and sexy with dark hair...but everyone says blonde fits my personality more...so I do blonde in the summer and dark in the winter :) ok- so i may be being silly right now- I'm just soooo bored at work-- and got NO sleep the past two nights...I tossed and turned *yawn*  Me and Josh are gonna play cards, then might hook his DVD player up in a bit lol Thu, 20 Oct 2005 16:49:14 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/new-hair/58/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/new-hair/58/ OMG!!  I got a new hairdo...I will try to take some pics tomorrow so that I can show you all how fabulous I look now!  You will all be soooo shocked!  Unfortunately for u all...I am taken! LOL!!   jk-- I can't wait to show Jason when he comes home for dinner tonight!  Everything is planned for our trip to Dallas this weekend...soo excited about that! :)  I get to meet Jasons sister and brother-in-law...I'm a little...ok- ALOT nervous, but I'm suer we'll get along fine. We are going to go to an evening church service with them Saturday, that should be interesting...haven't gone to church in a while...especially not one that has lots of people our age!  Should be fun. I checked with the county clerk office this morning- turns out it's gonna be easier than I thought to get married!  All we need is our Driver's Licenses, his proof of divorce (uh yeh cuz he was married before) and...that's about it- my coworker is a certified minister, so he can... Thu, 20 Oct 2005 00:14:39 +0200 http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/a-happy-day/57/ http://www.blogigo.co.uk/sprighty/a-happy-day/57/