new washing maschine
Jojo is happy, she loves our new washing maschine. She has still not forgotten that she was bitten by Enno, the boy in her kindergarden. When we pick her up she comes out and says laughing: I was not bitten today...
She said, Mama, nobody is alowed to punsh somebody or bite, when somebody does it to me, I have to say very loud "NO" or I have to help other ones... I asked very carefully : are you alowed to hit back? She said: Of Course not, never! Than a couple of minutes later she asked me: Or mama?
I must say, I dont know really, I dont think they should learn in that age to hit for any reasons somebody. but do they have to learn to defense themself? Or should they only learn with 3 years there is never a way of violence, that is never a solution? We dont really know what to answer her... For her it is quiete clear for the moment, the boy had done something wrong and he has to learn to behave right... In her eyes it is easy and clear, maybe we leave it like that... Pete said this boy gets never invitet to our house, but now Jojo startet to say she wants to invite him with some other kids. And first pete said: no way! But because she is saying it and said, he is nice to her now pete said, ok, if she wants it...
