Proverbs 18:16
A gift gets attention; it buys the attention of eminent people.
Attention=careful notice
Eminence = high repute
That's true - If your intent is to butter me up to get my attention - to get me to do something that YOU want. Giving me something I want - first - sure will do the trick.
The fancier the outside rappings - most likely the quicker the recipient will accept. But then isn't that puting strings attached to the gift? I've padded your ego with a gift you wanted so now you owe me what I want?
That might work for a while , but people will soon see through that trick and be leary of future gifts.
A true gift should always be - no strings attached - without compinsation
