The real-life tales of a self-confessed kink addict

Sometimes you have to lose everything before you can appreciate anything. Sometimes appreciation only makes the loss worse....

I have been considering self worth of late... it goes so much deeper than self esteem. I have been asking myself why anyone would want to engage in the kind of behaviour that if not actively damaging, is at the least negligent.The only conclusion I can draw is that, at some point, either suddenly in a single instant, or gradually over years, we come to have an idea of our value, and base our calculations accordingly.

But when the base equation is flawed, miscalculations occur...