So So Wrong...
Mood: Frustrated
Listening to: Thoughts Whirring
The girls were discussing having a sex toy party tonight, and two things came to my mind.
One: They all have husbands or partners to take their toys home to. And lets face it, these things are MUCH more fun when there is a co-operative effort involved. I'm just plain old jealous!
Two: Miranda and the "Sex and the City" episode that covered the obsessive use of "mechanical friends". The Rabbit had her holed up like a hermit, ditching friends, even dates, and bewitching her with its battery operated goodness. This lead me to two more major issues, things I should have to consider as a single girl attending a sex toy party:
One: My budget doesn't stretch to the level of battery use that would be involved in an obsessive relationship with a sex toy. Really. Batteries are expensive. While I don't begrudge the initial outlay, I think these things are better used as an accessory to the experience as opposed to becoming the whole experience in and of themselves. Which leads me very neatly into number two:
Two: I like men. And not just for the bits that... well... Anyway, I like men for their conversation, their minds, their strange and odd behaviour. For their pack mentality. For their inability to deal with the most simple of tasks, yet the strangest ability to process complex and convoluted mechanical type tasks with minimal effort. For their ability to hold me, and make me feel safe and warm, even on the coldest of nights. For their mind boggling way of not actually coming out and saying what they mean. The way that they never grow up. I couldn't swap the enigma that is MAN for something that went buzz in the night.
I wonder if men feel this way about women? If there were mechanical means of gaining the same, if not better levels of sexual satisfaction, would women be prized above the toy?
2. Personally I would trade in a girlfrined (ie love) for a sex toy even if it gave the best pleasure evah.
Because sex is sex, and love is.
Quite agree - much thought on this subject in last couple of days... as you will see in the latest post!
Should I also assume that you meant that love is love?
Lol, quite possibly.
\"should I also assume that you meant that love is love?\"
Actually I meant love is... somewhat undefinable.
Do you think that it\'s undefinable because we aren\'t eloquent enough, or perhaps because our language just doesn\'t have the right adjectives?
We do know what it is after all, it\'s just the putting it into words that is the hard part. I guess I can\'t speak for others, however, I personally find the feeling to be unmistakable, inimitable. There is no boundaries to it, true. I don\'t think that there are any other feelings that come close.
I wonder why we haven\'t come up with more words that can adequately describe the feeling that we as a society value more highly than any other? We are supposed to be an intelligent people!