All The Small Things

Dec 25, 2006 at 14:04 o\clock

Christmas Eve...

by: Sassy1

Just thought I'd write and tell you all about the wonderful Christmas Eve, and the Eve of Christmas Eve and the Friday before the Eve of Chrismas Eve that I had this lovely year.

Friday evening my lovely GM came in to town and we headed down to the pub, and lovely Becks did make it out with us. We had an odd sort of time, with one of GMs mate's little sister telling Becks that she thought I was on with Becks and that GM should put a stop to the way we were talking. GM told her not to be stupid, that we were just mates. GM told me this later on, all I saw at the time was foul looks from her, followed by her dragging GM off to a dark and secluded corner of the garden. However, (probably for the first time ever!) I pushed aside the instant green eyed monster that arose, and thought to myself, they're just mates. He loves me and I trust him.

Late in the evening I had a wonderful and awesome surprise when Mrs Macca and CK suddenly appeared in the bar of the Sassville pub! I LOVE surprise and wonderful visitations from gorgeous friends. We all headed back to play some pool, and Mrs. Macca and I danced some Cha-Cha and some Rhumba and I can't remember what else. I may have bruised her feet though. Sorry 'bout that Mrs. Macca!!

We went to the bakery where we sweet talked our way into some choice morsels. Becks had his eye on a bacon and cheese twist, but it wasn't going to be ready for a long time. Mrs. Macca and CK headed off as they had an early start, and Becks, GM and I headed for home.

Becks wasn't ready for bed, but GM and I were so he sat up and was apparently out on the front steps having "a nap" when he was awoken by my lovely baker friend nudging him with his boot. Becks awoke, and was handed a warm bacon and cheese twist for our collective breakfasts. How much do I love this place, and my friends in this place? Awesome.

GM got up really early for milking, Becks and I had a sleep in. We got up about 11am, and had our breakfast, ample amounts of coffee, and it was lovely. Then Becks headed for home and I got ready to head out to GMs farm for the Eve of Christmas Eve (After a Nanna Nap - I was buggered. Doing nothing is exhausting!)

The Eve of Christmas Eve had a fairly inauspicious beginning GM wise. I headed out to my lovely GM's house about 8pm on Saturday night, because he had asked if I'd like to go out and spend the night with him at his place. But when I got there he wasn't home. So I headed up to his mum and dads place, to see if he was there (he tends to head up there after milking to feed the poddies and to have dinner sometimes). He wasn't there, so they called him up on the two-way.

He was out "shooting bunnies" with his little sister, which is rather cute, but made me think that he'd completely forgotten that he'd asked me. When he arrived, 10 minutes later, he was carrying a bunny, which he'd potted, and he and his little sister proceeded to make the fun with the corpse.

I wasn't feeling like the most special little person at this point, as you can imagine - I don't think anyone likes showing up and being greeted by... well... no one.

However, once he arrived, (took off his boots at the door, deposited the bunny in the fridge, and washed his hands) he came over and sat beside me on the couch and gave me a great big hug and kiss. "I thought you'd be out later darlin', sorry I wasn't here to meet you." I said, "Well, it is later babe, its 8.30pm" "Bloody daylight savings. I'm sorry hon." We smooched up on the couch and talked and laughed with his family for a while, before heading back down to his place and... enjoying each others company into the wee small hours.

The next day, Christmas Eve, we woke up early - unnaturally early. 5.45am early. What I love about getting up that early on the farm is that I don't feel tired (until much much later). We bounced out of bed and got into our farmer clothes and headed down to the dairy. I helped with the milking, and then we went up to his mum and dads for breakfast.

"What have you two got on for the day?" asked his mum.

"I thought that we might take a drive up to *insert name of romatic sort of spot here* and check out the look out and then have lunch, what do you reckon darlin'?"

Naturally, this sounded pretty sweet to me really, so we headed back down to his place and I had a shower (after cleaning his bathroom which was putrid after being used and abused by any number of Club GMers over the preceding weeks), and got changed. He decided against the whole having a shower and getting changed thing... which while I thought it was odd, was pretty well OK with me as I think we are all aware of my penchant for men in dirty work clothes, in particular this one gorgeous poo-spattered man.

We headed off in his truck, and took a beautiful back road. We weaved our way through the most magificent bushland (much of which he had previously set fire to... as part of back burning efforts in the last fires), lush farmland and meandering streams (which were running due to a fair spattering of rain that they'd recieved in the area a few days prior). It was a gorgeous day, and not nearly as hot as it had been in the preceding days. We talked the whole way, and it was awesome.

It took maybe an hour to reach our destination, where we took a walk around the lookout and surrounds. We headed down to the local hotel, which is the only restaurant in the town and had a beautiful lunch sitting on the decking overlooking the mountains. Delicious, and we had the whole place to ourselves, as tourists aren't really visiting the area at the moment. I don't know why, its looking just beautiful, then again, it wouldn't have been nearly as lovely if it were full of tourists.

I was surprised that he had thought to take me there - after all, thats a pretty sweet and romantic gesture by anyones standards really. He's totally kept up his word and bought in the back paddocks!!

After lunch we headed for home, via the same gorgeous road. About half way home, he say's, I'm just going to pull in here, theres a bridge I want to see, I think they replaced it.

So we pulled into what I think is the most beautiful spot I've ever seen. There was a creek running through the middle of a small green clearing, with willows lining the water, and native flowers blooming all round. The creek was bubbling away gently over the rocks, and there were birds chirping away up in the gums on the other side of the clearing.

We had a wander about, he kissed me against a willow tree, and said to me, I reckon this should be our special place darlin', just for us.

AWW!!! Is that not the sweetest and most wonderful thing ever? God I love him.

Some time later, we drove out, and in passing noticed that they had indeed put in a new bridge. I asked him how he knew about the spot - he'd set fire to it during the fires. I love when I get an answer like that. Other blokes you'd wonder if they'd taken girls there before, but not my GM.

When we got home, he went down to bring in the cows, and I headed up to the house to get changed. We milked together again, which was just wonderful - I love working with him and doing farmy things.

Then we headed into town, seperately. I got there first, and was sitting on my front fence still covered in poo and talking to a neighbour, when he arrived all showered and sweet smelling. The neighbour eventually left, and GM came into the house with me to exchange gifts. He bought me a gorgeous handbag and as I was exclaiming how lovely it was, he said "look inside". So I opened it up, and he'd put the cutest photoframe in there. Its a magnetic stand with two little cartoon piggie shaped magnets on it to hold the photo on. Its really cute and kitch and fun. I think I almost like it better than the handbag, because its something that he picked on his own - his mum definitely helped with the handbag, I'd admired it in the window of the shop with her a month or so earlier.

He was going to a party next door to my place, and I hadn't really decided what I was going to do. I had a vague notion that I would go to town and do the Midnight Mass thing, which is kindof a tradition with some of my mates from school. GM didn't invite me to head along with him ("I'm going to *Blahs* house for a party, what are you up to?" not figuring in my mind as an invitation. I'm sure if I'd wanted to go I could have said so, but I didn't want to spoil what had been a wonderful day by watching GM get drunk and fall down, which is sadly what I had expected that he would do.).

So I got in touch with a bunch of mates from school and ended up going into town early for tea and biscuits (read coffee and lovely fruit salad and berries) with Tink and two of the lads. It was really awesome to catch up with Tink again and the boys too. Only one of them (Almost) decided to come with me to Midnight Mass, so at 11.45pm I headed round to the church.

Mass has ended, go in peace, kisses all round then home for me. As I headed into my little Sassville, I saw one of GM's brothers mates who lives two doors down from me, and I offered to drop him at home. We got halfway up the hill that leads to my place, and we saw a group of people on the road. So we stopped, to see who they were. GM was there, he'd been heading up the hill towards my place. I said Hi to the rest of them, including GMs beautiful cousin who was down from Melbourne, the Tease (who leapt into the car and said "Lets go baby, you and me, right now! Floor it!"), and GM's little brother. After establishing that everyone was off home, I said my goodnights too. GM got into the car, and I said to him, you don't have to come home with me darlin, you can go with the others if you want. He said, no, I want to come with you. I was heading for your place anyway, I'm ready to go home.

So we said goodnight again, and we drove home. We got inside, and he say's "How was your night darlin'?"

"Wonderful! I caught up with *insert names here* and we had a cuppa together. Then I went to Mass with my lovely friend Almost and his parents. It was really lovely. I feel awesome."

"Oh, thats great hon."

"What did you get up to?"

"I went over to *Blahs* house, and all he wanted to do was drink. He didn't even want to go down to the pub. So we stayed there, and he just drank until he passed out, it sucked. It was so boring. All they wanted to do was drink. So a group of us went to the pub in the end, but they shut after about half an hour, then we had no-where to go. So we went back to *blahs* house, but they were all drunk. So I cracked it and I was heading home when you drove up."

OH MY GOD.

Did you just hear what I heard coming out of the mouth of my man?

"He just drank until he passed out, it sucked." Sound familiar much??? LOL

I don't think the night could have ended on a better note really.

But it did, as we snuggled up together in bed and wished each other a very very very Merry Christmas. (Don't be looking for more smut than that CK - its the festive season, and that would be wrong!)

Christmas Day dawned far too early, with GM heading off at 6am to go milking. I must say that the day itself was bittersweet for me - while it was lovely to spend it with the family, I missed Nicky like you would not believe.

Tomorrow we are heading in to town for a second attempt at Christmas WITH Nicky, and GM who will be joining us after morning milking for lunch. I'm looking forward to it, I can't wait to see Nicky.

So Merry Christmas one and all.

Dec 22, 2006 at 05:39 o\clock

Sorry for the delay!

by: Sassy1

Dear everyone,

I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to write with the news of my life, such as it is.

Its been a really big couple of weeks, as we shall now explore in bullet format, as one is short on time and long on news (PS This is not in chronological order):

  • My lawyer is "too busy" to represent me "adequately" so he has returned everything that I had sent him and I must now locate a new person to help me.
  • Mr. D. is behaving like a complete and utter tool.
  • I located a new lawyer, but must now go through the processes that the other lawyer hadn't gotten around to... which I can't imagine will be easy with everything closed over Christmas & New Year.
  • Mr. D. emptied my bank account (by accident, but still) and then had to go and put the cash back.
  • So now I have to open a new account and, again, what a pain in the butt over the Christmas /  New Year period.
  • Since after emptying my account and telling me that he knew something wasn't right because he had "so much more in my own account", I have decided to swallow my pride and make him pay the maintenance that he aught to have been paying from the start. They are obviously doing much better than me, and if the Govt. says that he should, then he should. Bugger it.
  • Mr. D. disagrees. He can get stuffed though, see point number two.
  • Nicky is spending Christmas out there, and will come home to me on Boxing Day.
  • I'm missing her already.
  • Lovely GM and I had a long involved conversation with tears and revelations on both sides, and all is wonderful again.
  • He hasn't been drinking.
  • He's been exceptionally thoughtful and lovely.
  • He's been wonderful with Nicky.
  • We're going away in January and taking Nicky with us, and I can't wait.
  • He took me out to dinner and a movie last week, which was simply delightful, and we're going out again tonight (to the pub - which should be a real test)
  • He's coming to spend New Years Eve with me and my friends.
  • Today is my last day of work for six lovely long weeks. Hooray!
  • I have twenty minutes to close everything up and get the hellski outski.
  • I went to Carols by Candlelight for the first time ever this week and it was awesome. I saw lovely Becks there, and hopefully he's coming out tonight too.
  • I dyed my hair blonde.

(Yes you did read that correctly. I am now a blonde.)

I have to tell you the story of going blonde - all did not go as planned, but right now I have to go and shut up the shop so that I can run off and get ready for tonight.

Merry Fristmas to all, and to all a good Knight.

Sass

Dec 10, 2006 at 11:51 o\clock

Serves me right for being cocky.

by: Sassy1

Well, things are not so peachy keen today.

Last night I went to a party with GM, and it was great.

I arrived pretty late, because I'd been babysitting. When I got there he wasn't drunk, he'd had a few but he was OK. He took me round and introduced me to his friends, which was nice.

About 2.30am we were sitting round the table with 5 other people, the last ones up. GM said to me quietly, where do you want to stay tonight darl? I said I'd like to go home. He say's no worries, I'll follow you round. I don't think so, I said, you're too drunk. Ill drive you if you like, and we'll come back for the car in the morning. Nah, he say's, I'll stay here then. Fine, whatever you like, but I'm going home.

His friend (who's parents house it was) asked us then where we were going to stay. GM say's, we'll stay here.

Righto, says his mate, I'll make up a bed for you. I have a double mattress up in my room.

No, thats OK, I'm going to go home, its only five minutes away and I've got things to do in the morning but thanks anyway. Says I.

No worries. Says the friend, looking askance at GM, who has now cracked another drink open.

He then proceeded to drink as we were talking until he passed out in the chair beside me.

One of his other mates gets up, I'm off to bed, he says. Would you like a hand to take him up to your room?

No, I'm not staying. Thanks anyway.

So what will we do with him then?

I don't know. Personally, I'd be inclined to leave him there, but I guess thats up to you.

Oh.

Yeah. Goodnight then.

And off he toddled.

 

I said my goodbyes to the host, who was really very lovely, and asked that he say goodbye to GM in the morning for me. What will I do with him? he asked as I left. I'd leave him there, really, he knew what he was doing, why should you have to look after him. Leave him there.

He looked at me like I was the most heartless bitch he'd ever met.

Goodnight then. Nice to meet you.

You too. Goodnight.

 

This left me feeling really pissed off for a couple of reasons.

A. I'm not his mother, or his nursemaid. It isn't my job to look after him. Passing out in order to force me to look after him is not going to work.

B. He's 26 years old. He should know his drinking limits by now. No-one else at the party drank like that, and its freaking embarassing, not to mention dangerous and stupid. If you are the only person in the place who passes out, then you have a problem.

C. I do not want to spend my life with an alcoholic. No matter how nice they are to me between times. And I am rather afraid that he is drinking to the point where that is not a rediculous label to put on him. (Also, this runs in his family, I have discovered. He would be fourth generation. Thats pretty serious history to deal with.)

D. He hasn't contacted me at all, and now he's gone away for four days to fight fires. What sort of person wouldn't ring and say something after that happening????

 

I really feel that I deserve better than that. What do YOU think???

Dec 8, 2006 at 02:44 o\clock

A dashing update

by: Sassy1

Just to let you all know that everything is peachy keen again with my delightful GM, and that we are all lovely dovey and smoochy and gross again... and its AWESOME!!

And he doesn't have to have the op on his shoulder any more, just injections into it every couple of weeks for a couple of months. And we have to hope that that works.

I'm happy, and its lovely to be happy again.

 

Buggered though - I dosed myself on Phenergan this morning, and I could fall asleep right now no worries. (This is all about the phenergan, and nothing to do with staying up all night last night with GM!!)

 

Thats all. I'll post again soonish, hopefully. Christmas is a nightmarish time of the year though!