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Sep 7, 2005 at 03:17 o\clock

Waiting for my husband to get home

by: SLEEPLYHAZELEYES

 Visit My Mail Stamp! I am waiting for my husband to return home. He was up at the hosital with grandma. He sounds just so tired. Grandma is still fighting. She is just not ready to leave. It is just so sad when someone you've known your whole life is about to leave this earth. It is so hard to understand. I can not understand. Life is so short. Life is so beautiful. Life can be cut short. Grandma has lived a good life. She is loved by her family. She has everyone by her side. Right where they should be. I always said: Send me flowers when I can see them and smell them and just enjoy them. What good are they when I am dead.  Some people don't get the chance to say good-bye to a loved one. Things happen suddenly. Make every day count. Don't take for granted even one second. Tell your kids you love them. Tell your soulmate you love them. Smile at someone who isn't having a good day. It could mean so much to that one person.

I still do not know what has happened next door to me. The Pink granite headstone still stands tall. The same thing day in and out. I did see him one day pull up infront of his house. Not in the driveway. He then walked very fast down the sidewalk and crossed the street and walked down the road and turned right. Where he went and who he went to see. I don't know. No sign of his wife nor his dog. The house is very overgrown. The tomato are all on the ground now. The son is no where in sight. When I have the energy to find out what has happened over there, I will let all know. Right now I am alittle busy with other things.

I had to work today. I am tired and waiting for my husband to get home. We work weird hours and somedays that are different. I took tomorrow  off. I have a doctors appt. I will go see grandma later on. Well, thanks to all who stopped to write something to me. Sometimes that's all you need. (a little time of someone else) Thanks..Henry and Shel...You are very kind.

 





Comments for this entry:

  1. shellbug773 wrote at Sep 7, 2005 at 03:44 o\clock:Hazelcutie - Im glad you\'re being strong for your husband. He really needs you right now and he\'s not being let down. It\'s so very sweet of you to take the day off tomorrow to go visit her while she\'s still with us physically here on this earth. =) You and I both know that she\'ll never be gone. Maybe that can give some comfort for your dear husband.



    You two hang in there. My thoughts and prayers are with you two, mainly, and the family. I do hope when she passes it\'s in her sleep as peaceful as it could possibly be. For her, that I will pray.



    *hugs and luvins to you and your loved ones*

    Shel
  2. MattelMichele wrote at Sep 7, 2005 at 04:31 o\clock:I am thinking about you, and send mucho hugs and love.



    ~Michele
  3. sapphire2 wrote at Sep 7, 2005 at 07:22 o\clock:hey you...Sorry to hear about your husbands grandma. I had no idea. I swear I\'m such a dumbass sometimes. I never meant to not send my sympathy to you and your family. Please forgive me : ) My grandma passed away last year and I never got to say goodbye. In my mind, I believe it was a good thing because I can remember her the way she was the last time I seen her.The worst thing about it all was that her funeral was on my son\'s 4th birthday. She was looking forward to coming to his b-day party. I ended up getting his b-day present that she had bought for him the day of the funeral. Goes to show you how someone can be here oneday and gone the next. Your so right about making everyday count and letting people know how much you love them.You and your family our in my prayers...Take Care
  4. WINTERWEATHER wrote at Sep 9, 2005 at 05:21 o\clock:I am sending you and your family many prayers...sorry it took so long to do so...I have been sick and not up to alot lately...there is something she is fighting for and you may know what that is someday...till then...be strong for yourself, your husband and the rest of the family...I will be praying for you all...





    Jackie

  5. SLEEPLYHAZELEYES wrote at Sep 10, 2005 at 14:41 o\clock:Shel...Thanks for taking the time to write something to me and my family. Your momma did a great job with you. You are a special person in your own right..Smiles and giggles to you. Hazeleyes
  6. SLEEPLYHAZELEYES wrote at Sep 10, 2005 at 14:42 o\clock:Sapphire...No need to explain to me...I know you better then that. I know you would of commented if you visisted my site. I hope all is well with you sweetie... Blog fogs are horrible.... Smiles and Giggles to you...Hazeleyes
  7. SLEEPLYHAZELEYES wrote at Sep 10, 2005 at 14:44 o\clock:Jackie...Thank you for your prayers..I\'ll take all that are given out. I hope you are up and feeling better now... Tink sends special tink dust your way...Smiles and giggles to you...Hazeleyes
  8. SLEEPLYHAZELEYES wrote at Sep 10, 2005 at 14:45 o\clock:Michele. Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts. I hope all is well in your life.. Smiles and Giggles to you...Hazeleyes

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