Mey's Journal

Listening to: Frasier's on tele

OOOooooo I could just kick my hubby in the nuts!!!!
He is soooooo annoying it's beyond possible!!!
I may have already told you how paranoid he is and he never liked me talking to 'strangers' on the net.

For my defence I always, always, ALWAYS talk to ladies and I know for a fact their are ladies cause if they were not....then they would be very sick and thick men!!!

I actually do not talk to many people online (I mean IM).  There is one I talk to regularly and have done for the past two years.  Her name is Manda and she lives in Carolina (can't remember if it's South or North) and she is an absolute great person I like to call my friend.  The rest of my internet friends are you guys and we communicate mainly by leaving comments on each others blog which I describe as being not talking... just writing...LOL if you know want I mean!!

So anyway, I received an invitation from someone called Dawn for a website called Almond the other day and I joined.  It's a bit like in here but less good (actually not good at all).  After about 4 days I realise that people don't care about each other they just leave stupid comments in their guesbook and the more comments you get the higher you go in the Almond world.  So I am not interested in the slightest of carrying on with this.  But before I decided on this, I'd already written a couple of entries in my journal and added a few pictures of myself.... don't look at me like that.... OK I will post some pictures of me in here too...now keep your hair on!

Anyway a couple of nights ago, I was reading Sapphire's blog and then something came up so I left the laptop and the window was still open on her blog plus I had another window open on my Almond thingy and also to a forum I like to go to (It's a forum dedicated to the 80s band A-ha now stop laughing and carry on reading!!)
So anyway, Hubby came home and took the laptop cause he wanted to look at something (probably how windy in was on the coast the day after so he could go Kite Surfing) and obviously he came across Sapphire's blog and my Almond thingy etc etc...
And started going all weird on me saying he thought that was such a strange thing to do.... you know...talking to strangers and reading about their lives.  He thinks I am a really sad.... and he started asking what other little secrets I had etc etc... makes me sooooo mad!!!  SO I told him to leave me alone and that it was none of his business.  Thank God he didn't know about Mey's Journal cause otherwise he would have been really mad!!  Don't ask me why, he is just being such a pratt sometimes!

So anyway, I told him that I just started the Almond thinga couple of days earlier, that it was a new thing and that I never done that before..... yeah I know I lied but what he doesn't know won't hurt him and will give me peace in my house. 

Now last night we had planned to go to eat at Wagamama, babysitter was booked and I was watching my soap drinking a Martini Bianco.... on the rocks!!
The Laptop was turned off... or at least I was logged off.  He came in the kitchen and first thing he asked was if I had been on my 'Thing'.  So I said 'Oh, is that gonna be the question of the month every time you walk in the house!!!!' and I carried on saying that no I had not been on my 'Thing' and to leave me the hell alone...
A few minutes later, I walked in the lounge and guess what.... no  no go on... GUESS!!!!
He was on the laptop, in my logging, on the Almond thingy!!  So I looked at him and said 'What do you think you're doing!!??' and he said 'Well you said you didn't go on it but I looked into your history and I see that you have'  I flew off the handle and told him to get lost, I said I was cancelling the babysitter and that he was a looser.

He came after me and was like.... sorry.  He even said it to which I replied 'You're not sorry you lying git' and he said 'Well no I am not but you lied to me'  and in fact I did not lie to him.  I looked at the almond thingy but did not write cause that day I decided to give it up cause it was pathetic.... So I was so mad I pretended to cancel the babysitter and he was not shuffed cause he was looking forward to a night out without the kids...

Anyway...cut a long story short.... yeah right..sorry it's taking so long to describe this to you.  We went to Wagamama and had a nice meal, after that we popped in to his old girlfriend's house and had a cup of tea (I get on well with her) then we got home.

Now... the second reason why I am MAD!!!!
Yesterday morning Hubby got a phone call from a mate of his inviting him to a Charity Ball in London where apparently lots of celebrities are gonna be there.  Now in my mind the charity ball was next week...next Thursday.  Then when we got home last night and he said to me that he was taking the train to London at 2pm the next day.
WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I said: Oh... so you will not be here for your son's birthday cause you know.... we like to open the presents first thing when we are still in bed....
I must say, his face dropped  and he was feeling really guilty but I felt gutted.  I cannot believe that even after that he managed to say that he would be there on time.  If it had been me I would have cancelled..... I dont care about celebrities...especially B listers (LOL).

So here it is... He is going this afternoon and will take the train back tomorrow at 6am so he will be at home at 8.30am.  He better otherwise it's not be who will be upset .... it's Tom... my beautiful 4 year old monkey!!!

And by the way... I have set up my history to be deleted on a daily basis... so he will not know where I've been. and I am even planning to set up a password on my logging.  That will really piss him off!!!

OK... today it's good cause I am going to the movies with Sarah and the kids to go and see Nanny McPhee.  That should be fun... and having the evening to myself without Hubby is a bonus...there...I said it!

Have a lovely Thursday
Mey
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