Mey's Journal

Nov 30, 2005 at 09:34 o\clock

Better now...

by: mey2

Mood: Calm
Listening to: Will and Grace on tele

I am so overwhelmed by all your support. Thank you all so much

Monday was a horrid day for me.  I went to work and my friend/colleague Claire saw straight through me and I had to tell her how I felt.  She was really supportive and said to me that I should go and see Andrea that afternoon to hear her side of the story.

I also talk to my friend Neil via email who works in the I.T. department and suprisingly he has some wise words for me too.  He said that when you are angry and upset about something, your mind goes on overdrive and you cannot think straight.  So you should sit back take a deep breath and deal with the situation calmly.

And it is what I did.  I arrived at Starbucks at 1.30 on Monday and ordered a skinny latte, and while I was waiting I was reading OK Magazine and all about C. Aguillera's wedding.  SO I was really calm.
Then I saw Andrea walked in and she looked like a zombie.  She sat down and she talked straight away with tears streaming down her cheecks telling how sorry she was.
She explained that she was drunk and felt lonely but in no way was trying it on with Hubby.  She said she just needed a hug and she admitted that it must have looked dodgy from where I was standing.  She also said she would understand if I never want to see her again and that she would never ever do this to me.
She looked genuinly upset and I did tell her that I had been deeply hurt. 

We agreed that the whole thing was a mistake and that it would never happen again. 

Hubby is still in the dog house but we talk.  He endlessly tells me he loves me and grabs me to give me a hug at any opportunity.  It actually made me laugh cause he acts like a child who lost his teddy!

Anyway.  My family is so important to me that I have made the decision to ease on what happened as long as Hubby will behave for the rest of his life.  One more mistake like this and I'll kick his butt so hard he won't touch the ground for half a mile!

Once again.  I am really really happy and touched by all your lovely messages.  It meant a huge deal to me.  Thanks Jackie for the chocolate ... I ate them all!

Have a beautiful day y'all
I love you

Comments for this entry:

  1. winteryweather wrote at Nov 30, 2005 at 15:01 o\clock:I am very glad to hear about how you were calm...sometimes being angry and fiery is no good. Just remember that stress kills and if you feel like you need to let hubby know things...tell him exactly how YOU feel! Keep him in the dog house. I hope things will continue to improve and I care! He best not get all huffy when you are out\'dancing on the tables\' lol. Have a great rest of the day and glad you enjoyed your sweets...hee hee.


  2. mey2 wrote at Nov 30, 2005 at 17:28 o\clock:Thank you Jackie and Teri... you\'re both beautiful!!

    And yeah.... if he dares says anything when I start dancing on the table... topless!!! Then I\'ll have his guts for breakfast!!!

    Love you all

    *BIG HUG*
  3. shellbug773 wrote at Dec 1, 2005 at 16:20 o\clock:Sometimes it is hard to forget things and it takes awhile to forgive. I think you\'re making the right decision, especially for the children. It\'s going to be rough, so anytime you need anything, let me know.

    Jackie is a great person, no? She listens and is always there. There\'ve been times when I wouldn\'t know what I would\'ve done without her. She needs like 2934729834 medals for everything she\'s done for me. She\'s genuine and it\'s hard to find people like her now days. :) Im glad she could be there for you. It\'s important to have someone you can trust especially in rough times.


    *hugs n luvins*


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