Mey's Journal

Mood: I am fine!!

I dont mean to moan all the time but when you are married to the guy I married, you have little else to do!
This morning as I was showering, hubby came in the bathroom to put gel in his hair (otherwise it's all fluffy and he looks like a right dork).  Anyway, he started talking to me about condoms.  He said that he thought they may not be lubricated enough and that is why it hurts me at times.... So I said to him 'well you know what the solution is dont you...SNIP'.  I have stopped my pill a year and a half ago cause it made me go doolalee and I told hubby at the time that after 12 years of me being responsible for contraception, it was his turn!  So either he would have the snip (also known as vasectomy) or he would use condom which to me was great cause it meant being clean....if you know what I mean...and sorry for the details!!!
I have taken the pill again last month to try to regulate Aunty Flo (a.k.a period).  So anyway, this morning he said to me... 'Well since you're on the pill again, I dont need to wear condoms'.  To which I replies 'Well hell no!  I dont take the pill for your benefit mate, it is for my body to get some order... so carry on with your business and leave me with mine!'  And he asked me why I would ask him to wear a condom when there is no danger of me getting pregnant cause I am back on the pill.  And I said 'You know what to do if you want to stop wearing a condom, go to the hospital and have the snip, I was the one responible for contraception in this marriage for 12 years, now it's your turn.... It's a matter of principle!' and he got angry and said 'That is bullshit, how can you say it's a matter of principle... how selfish can you get'.... No no... you read right.  He called me selfish!!!  ME!!!!!  ME who took the pill and went crazy every month for 12 years, and HE who has been wearing condom for just over a year... HE CALLED ME SELFISH!!!!  The nerve of that guy!  Before he left the bathroom he said... 'You know I dont enjoy it as much with a condom, so why would you do this' and he left!

I was stunned...soap all over I shouted (he was then downstairs and may have not heard me) 'How dare you call me selfish when I took the pill for 12 years and you only managed condom for 1, and you dont enjoy it as much!!??  WELL JOIN THE CLUB!!!!!!!!!'  I am not sure if he heard... I hope he did!

Sex is such a chore and he wants it all the time... I dont even get paid for it... LOL... that would make me something else!!  But to be honest, I think that when you are married and hubby asks for sex all the time, surely you should get a wage!!!   

Anyway, we were ok in the end... Yesterday I went out to buy myself a new purse cause my old one was broken and I ended up buying...a purse and three pairs of trousers!!! (2 jeans and 1 cord).
He obviously does not know about it cause we dont have any money at the moment and I was asked to stop spending... but I really needed these and because of Aunty Flo, I needed to cheer myself up!  So I bought them, and hid them in the house.  I am wearing a pair of new jeans this morning and he didn't even notice they were new... Mahahahahah!

It's raining today but apparently it should be better later.... let's hope so!
Have a lovely week everyone.... Monday is the worst day of the week but cheer up!!  Only 5 days to the weekend
Mey
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