Mey's Journal

Aug 12, 2005 at 14:23 o\clock

12th August

by: mey2

Mood: Tired but happy

Hey Guys .... I have decided to take 10 minutes to write a little and with a bit of luck , I will be able to read your blogs too.

First of all... I am really really tired , cause last night my friend Sandy and I went to the pub for a meal and we drank a nice bottle of Australian white wine...and more!  So we were kinda tipsy when we got home  and now this morning I am feeling tired... need to sleep a little more!!

My dear friend Sandy has left this morning.  She has taken the train to Paris and then tomorrow she will be flying  to Tenerife in the Canaries Islands   .  I hope she will be ok cause her and her boyfriend of 5 years have been going through some tough time lately and she deserved to be so happy.  I will tell you more about her later!

... I wanted to tell you about that WOMAN!!! Karen who has been sending me texts via her mobile/cell phone.
She started on Tuesday night and ask me in a rather cold tone if I minded giving her the name of the person who was doing my hair at my hairdresser.  I thought: What the heck!!!  She writes to me like nothing happened!!!  So I ignored her.  Next evening, she sent me the same text as the night before... I thought: Cheecky Moo ... dont you get it.. I am IGNORING YOU!!!
Then yesterday she sent me a rather nasty one in the afternoon.  Here it goes: So I cant even ask you a question now!? God U really do hate me. I've read and read that email I sent u and obviously u r annoyed but if you even cared one bit u would have responded. This just makes me so sad, I should be able to tell u how I feel shouldn't I?! U have shown me now how little u think of me. Just hope its ok at school. I wont b bothering u. 
Nice isn't it!!  She has the nerve to send me this when she was the one who created this all mess all along and I was just to tired too carry on with it.  She has the nerve to reverse the situation and she is making me feel guilty about her being such a horrible person to me for weeks before hand.  She has the nerve to think it is ok to talk to me badly about my other friends, she sees nothing wrong in that.... and she has the nerves to say how little I think of her when she has treated me like a puppet for so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now I was really annoyed yesterday with that last text and on the advice of my friend Sandy and Sam, I ignored her again.  But I was boiling inside!!  But I sort of thought that it was at last the end of it!

But what do you know... she texted me last night again  about our Slim and Salsa class and the fact that our instructor was asking about me!!!!  She texted me that she told our instructor that she didnt know if I was coming back to the class or not.  It didn't occur to her to say that we had fallen out because she had been such a ass.  She has no clue that girl .  I feel like telling her how much she annoys me but that would be stooping as low as she is.  SO I will ignore her.... as far as I am concerned.... I do not know her anymore!

That was all I wanted to say for today!!!  Have a lovely day!
Mey
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1. WINTERWEATHER wrote at Aug 12, 2005 at 14:39 o\clock:Glad to hear you had a great time with your friend Sandy. I really hate the fact that Karen has tried to reverse things on you and DON\"T feel guilty. With all you have gone through with this woman and how unhealthy it makes you feel, it isn\'t worth it! She is just realizing that she needs you and if you fall for it, you will be right back where you were and misrable! Just keep ignoring her and SMILE....
   
   
   
   *grins*
   
   
   
   Jackie
2. mey2 wrote at Aug 12, 2005 at 14:42 o\clock:Awww... thanks Jackie. That is exactly what my friend Sam said. SHe needs me more than I need her. She is obviously thin skinned to write to me like this. and as you said, if I go back and start talking to her again, it\'ll be a huge mistake and I\'ll be back right where I was before!! Thanks again Jackie... your words are very supportive!!!
   
   Mey
3. shellbug773 wrote at Aug 13, 2005 at 18:21 o\clock:Good for you, Mey! The best argument is silence. When you just ignore someone, they talk to themselves. That, in turn, lets them see how much of an ass they are. Shes trying to reverse it because she is seeing that she can\'t abuse you anymore and she\'s weak. You\'re showing her how weak she is and she can\'t take it. The more you ignore her, the more its going to nag at her. The fact that she\'s thinking about you long enough to think of something to write, take the time to do it and send it...then wait and wait on a response - shows you its working. Just keep on tellin us about it and go off here instead of to her. Also - you have absolutely no reason to feel guilty. She\'s the worthless ass who did this to herself. =) You\'re just a better, stronger and more intelligent person. You can\'t help that, now can ya? ;)
   
   
   
   *hugs n luvins*
   
   ~ Shel
4. mey2 wrote at Aug 15, 2005 at 14:52 o\clock:Thank you so much Shell. That means a lot to me. I will follow your advice which is the same advice as the rest of my friend gave me.
   
   I feel better and stronger!
   
   You guys are the best!! Thankyou for your kind support!
   
   Mey

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