Friendly Competitvenessss
Going Bingoing
Last night was my BINGO night. I usually attend a BINGO night about twice or three times a month. My wife and I enjoy our nights out very much. It is always great fun to go out together. I remember the times I used to go to BINGO alone and it was not half as fun as enjoying the game together. There is something exciting about going to BINGO together and in fact one of our first dates involved a BINGO game. Although the race at the game is a competitive one, somehow this competitiveness does not promote antagonism. One might expect there to be a measure of antagonism that might develop against the winner as is sometimes seen in other races but for some reason, in BINGO, that is not the case. There is a sort of group feeling that at least someone has won and hurray for him! The same holds for my wife and myself. Although we each get our own BINGO cards and we do view it as a sort of competition, there is no risk of a negative feeling of competitiveness developing. Rather we are racing together and each encourages the other to score.
Mutual Fun
I think that it is this mutual fun that is what makes the bingo game so popular as a social event. The game involves a certain measure of competitiveness while the absolute randomness assures us that no animosity will develop. Thus, people can play excitedly, compete against one another and still develop fast friendships that will endure the results of the game. I discussed this particular theory with several of my friends and they have all agreed that it makes a lot of sense. They have also all agreed that at many other games they have seen animosity develop. Often this was because people had strategies that they hoped to use and another had bested them. This just doesn't happen at BINGO.
